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Valentine's day manipulation

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 crazyblindsided (original poster member #35215) posted at 7:09 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Just putting this here... not sure what to think of it except that it screams more lovebombing more manipulation and I wish he wouldn't do it but again I cannot control what STBX does

I woke up this morning to flowers for Valentine's Day, while they are not the nice bouquets he used to get they are very cute but come with manipulation of course

I'm staying NC!

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 7:22 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Swing by a hospital and give them to the nurses on duty or give them to a kind neighbor. Then, go do something kind, loving, and amazing for yourself. Good for you for realizing what it was and not breaking NC. Brava!!!

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 8:25 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Stay the course, Crazy...

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Oh, and Happy Valentine's Day you amazing woman YOU!

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:01 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Swing by a hospital and give them to the nurses on duty or give them to a kind neighbor.

Great minds was getting ready to type the same thing.

Or If you are feeling vindictive you could just set them on fire in the driveway.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 9:06 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020

Or If you are feeling vindictive you could just set them on fire in the driveway

Lol, why yes great minds do think alike!

Oh I was thinking this too, but I'm in such a great mood today I decided to take the high road and advise on that note. Or, you van take the flowers to school and give them to the ladies, and gentlemen, in the office. Theirs is a tha less job. I just have a soft spot for nurses because I have a few in my family!

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014

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