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Coreofsteel (original poster member #62501) posted at 8:29 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
SO I started dating a guy off Bumble. Did all the due diligence. Turns out guy is married. He called it"polyamorous". She didn't know. I told him that's just cheating.
ME: BS. Together with wayward spouse for 4 years. D-Day Jan 24, 2018. D-Day #2 Feb 5, 2018. D-day #3 from numerous other people, March 15. D-day #4 April 9, sex with more people and a hooker. NO future.
bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 9:22 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
Ouch! But you did good, checking everything and stuff. You will be OK
English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...
I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 11:18 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
Ugh! I'm sorry. That sucks!
And you nailed it. Definitely cheating if she doesn't know and agree to polyamorous. Which to me just means "greedy."
Such b.s. out there!!
cheatstroke ( member #67708) posted at 12:10 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
He called it "polyamorous"
Tell him if his wife doesn't know, it's called "polyassholus".
Take screen shots of his cute little Bumble world and send them to his wife.
Tell him he's now in a marriage where his wife knows he's a cheating asshole. Call it "polyinformus".
nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 2:17 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
Cheatstroke that is brilliant!
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
HappyTree ( member #56916) posted at 2:51 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
I have a daydream where I am on a date with someone and then find out they are married. In my daydream I always kick them in the balls, yell at them in the restaurant and then storm away leaving them with the bill.
Married 11 years
D-Day in October 2016
2 kids- 10 and 8
HalfTime2017 ( member #64366) posted at 9:49 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
Cheatstroke, that is way too funny.
shakentocore ( member #46124) posted at 11:08 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2019
You should be proud of yourself for checking and telling this jerk what you think of his “”polyamorous” relationship!
DDay - Christmas 2014. Working on R.
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 1:24 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2019
cute little Bumble world
So dismissive. So perfect. This is where unicorns romp unthethered. In the free range pastures of Bumble world.
You iz in a mood today cheatstroke. Brilliance.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 1:42 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2019
Cheatstroke nailed it! SI gold!
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:52 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2019
cheatstroke 1 - polydipshit 0
Agreed with cheatstroke all the way! Tell the wife. She should know.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 3:38 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2019
Cheat stroke, you made my day! LOL! 
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