BB, you are me a few months ago. Former serial monogamist before WH.
"I am ready to be out in the world with an openness about me, rather than my kinda high walls I am currently rocking? "
Exactly how I felt the day I went to the beach and met first the man I dated after WH. I just felt open and receptive to whatever. I smiled a lot. Struck up conversations with strangers, women and men alike. One was beach dad's father. We talked for 30 minutes. Within an hour, BD had the skinny on me and came over to chat with me.
That was easy and natural. Now, however, I'm in uncharted territory...OLD. I'm horrible at it. I posted my profile, then ran and hid behind the curtains for a week as the sharks swarmed, lol. I befriended one non-threatening man, out of my age range and he knows it. We have a lot in common (all verified, as he has an online presence through his work) and will likely meet for a drink. Platonic, and he is aware.
There are 2 profiles who liked me, and I liked them. I can't get the nerve to start a conversation. I'm terrified. What is wrong with me? Argh! Hahaaa. Afraid they are players, cheaters, creeps, etc etc. My problem. Not theirs. I think I'll just have to jump in and risk it. How else to move forward.
And yes, tell your friends and acquaintences you are available. Chat up friendly strangers. You never know if they have a son, friend, brother you'd be interested in (as in my case, lol).
Good luck. I need luck, too. I stink at this
[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 7:55 PM, April 27th (Saturday)]