user4578 (original poster member #84572) posted at 12:47 PM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2024
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Groot1988 ( member #84337) posted at 2:27 PM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2024
ahhhh, I feel this.
Now I know why you said you posted something similar, glad I found it.
My H was in a band since I met him, he has been through two so far in the past ten years and was a complete selfish Asshole that always had girls grabbing at his pant legs on stage and he loved that attention. 
He isn't in an active band and never will be again mostly his decision but it is an ultimatum in the back of my brain.
I also sit and think about what he may have done while he was in the band because girls were literally all over the guys in the band but I have no proof.
For all I know he could have been a serial cheater and I may never know. I like to think that the truth will come out eventually but it doesn't really make me feel any better.
So no advice here , I am just here to say that I am with you and I am sorry.
My H used to stalk girls on FB all the time and majority of them were not attractive, guess that was the porn.
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Married 5 years (together 11) Four children Me Bs 36Him WH 35- 4 month PA Dday Oct 6- lots of TT final disclosure Jan 16.
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user4578 (original poster member #84572) posted at 2:50 PM on Tuesday, July 16th, 2024
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