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Requesting SI mojo

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:50 AM on Saturday, March 9th, 2024

Thanks bearly!

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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icytoes ( member #79512) posted at 8:01 PM on Saturday, March 9th, 2024

Shehawk, I haven't been able to stop thinking about you and worrying about you since last night when I read what your exWH has done to you. He is one of the worst exes I have ever read about on SI. What is his deal? It seems he can't handle that you have moved on graciously and are living a good life, so he continues to terrorize you. I am so glad you are safe and have good friends who are supporting you right now. Sending you lots of strength and care.

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 1:24 AM on Sunday, March 10th, 2024

Thank you for the positive thoughts icy toes.
I am surrounded by friends and my bf. We are just taking it one day at a time.

Thanks to all for the positive thoughts and prayers and special mojo.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 8:03 AM on Sunday, March 10th, 2024

Shehawk, are you planning to file a bar complaint against your ex's attorney? I think you should. Also against the judge. I would appeal his decision and also submit written statements from everyone and also go after those hidden assets! Have your settlement overturned and any agreements enforced that he hasn't complied with. I'd also get a restraining order against him and put up cameras everywhere on and around your property. Your ex is one blimey bastard!

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 11:55 PM on Sunday, March 10th, 2024

Arklamiss


Thanks for the thoughts.

I did find out that at this level any attorney in the US who is able to practice at the appellate level to file and write appeal briefs.

Counting in that si mojo and prayers to keep me going

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:50 AM on Monday, March 11th, 2024

Continuing to send mojo, Shehawk.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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Forks027 ( member #59996) posted at 1:28 AM on Thursday, March 14th, 2024

Wow, words can't describe how enraged I am for you, shehawk. What a petty, slimy b**** your ex is.

Sending you all the mojo and good vibes I can manage. Hope whatever the ex put in so much effort to take breaks apart in his care.

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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:00 PM on Thursday, March 14th, 2024

Thank you to everyone for the prayers, special si mojo and posts.

I have an appointment for medical care and am on a list for mental health care for the trauma and I am resting.

I can’t thank others enough for their kindness and concern. I had a chiropractor visit yesterday and they did some very compassionate and helpful things to help get me out of pain.

I quarantined for a few days to protect others from what I was exposed to (jail covid).

I live in a locked building but the domestic violence network in conjunction with ring put me on the list for a ring camera. I live on an upper floor so I just need one for the door.

Sadly the mental health providers in the jail taught me a lot about what kind of person would do the kind of thing exwh did. Exwh told me he would destroy me if I left him for infidelity.
I deeply regret not believing him when he told me who he was.


I cannot get a protective order because legal abuse is not on the list of things that would get me one. I will be looking into a cease and desist. But I will have to raise the funds for a shark type of legal firm.

It is true that what was done was unethical according to attorney codes of ethics and even Judges are supposed to recuse themselves when they cannot be unbiased. And fraud is fraud. I am looking for any attorney licensed in any state at the appellate level to help with the appeal. And I will be working on raising funds to pay them.

I very much appreciate the prayers, well wishes, and mojo.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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Forks027 ( member #59996) posted at 9:33 PM on Thursday, March 14th, 2024

Exwh told me he would destroy me if I left him for infidelity.

The way the minds of those like your ex work is so fcking strange. They’re the ones that cheat, abuse, and upend the lives of their partners. And yet… they go to extreme lengths for petty revenge like they’re the ones who’ve been wronged.

So fcking strange indeed. I hope you’re able to find an absolute shark for legal representation

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