Icanprocessemotions (original poster new member #83009) posted at 4:27 PM on Wednesday, September 13th, 2023
I have tried to move on after a year and predictably, I got close enough to be emotionally safe, and then I got re-triggered and pushed I pushed her away. I am currently repeating the same process three years post divorce and I am so tired of being hurt and hurting back.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 6:54 PM on Wednesday, September 13th, 2023
Are you in IC? Our patterns are really hard to break without some outside help. This stuff is really hard.
Also, provide more detail when you are ready.
I read your bio. Have you seen your primary doctor about the possibility of antidepressants? Many of us here needed them and used them to get through those hardest days. You don’t have to stay on them forever. You have been heard.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural