Bulcy (original poster member #74034) posted at 10:45 PM on Wednesday, September 13th, 2023
I need to be held accountable today.
There are things BS has asked of me. These things to do daily. They include:
- Read SI, post on SI where necessary and discuss with BS thoughts on posts made
- Answer questions on Paired (App) and discuss
- Discuss feelings or triggers should one happen. Not just facts of the day, but feelings too
These three, and others, I have not held up to my promise.
I have no excuse, there is no excuse. Only the need to improve and do as I say I will
WH (40's) Me. Emotional affair (2017), Physical affair (2003) and online affairs, Two physical affairs (2000). D-Day's 2003, August '17, multiple discoveries through 2018,19 and 20, Jan 21 and 2022
My history is not my destiny
MrRockMonster ( new member #83666) posted at 12:48 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2023
Hey Bulcy,
I just noticed it’s been a few days since you posted about needing to be held accountable, since then how have things been? Have you started doing what you said you would do daily? I know sometimes it’s easy to not do the work, we are only human with busy lives. The important thing is to not let it get you down and try harder tomorrow.
I know I haven’t post in awhile, I do plan on picking it back up again. I have A LOT that I need to be held accountable for, and I’ll post more about that in time. My BS and I had a good day today with a few little low spots, but nothing we couldn’t handle. We had good communication today. I am currently reevaluating my approach to doing my recovery work and helping my BS heal. So once I figure some stuff out, I’ll be posting more.
