This Topic is Archived
lineagegold (original poster new member #83494) posted at 3:05 AM on Tuesday, August 8th, 2023
Thanks Buffer.
The children are my focus. When I was depressed and weakened I wasn't there for them like I could have been. Now I am and doing more to show them how much daddy loves them.
I am allowing text and calls again instead of just email. Reason being I think blocking to email only wasn't best for me, holding on to that anger. And text and calls have the benefit of being quicker and I've been able to call a couple times the last few days to talk to the children when they aren't on their iPads.
Ex knows she is my ex. Probably only a matter of time before she starts wanting to talk about relationship. But it doesn't matter as I will only accept a true queen.. a godly woman in my life. I won't accept anything less.
Those 2 points are very strong mental freedoms for me.. That I accept and know that she is my ex and even ENJOY now that fact because I am moved on from an abuser. AND that I won't accept anything less than what I deserve.
This Topic is Archived