Topic is Sleeping.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:08 PM on Thursday, March 9th, 2023
Congratulations Coozann...and THANK YOU for posting this in the "Positive Reconciliation Stories" thread too!!! What an inspiration you and your lovely wife are!!!
I am looking forward to many more inspirational posts Cuz!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Hannah47 ( member #80116) posted at 11:03 AM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
Congratulations and all the best to you two!
For me, this is the key:
It is not possible if your spouse is not remorseful.
Yes, BSs are responsible for their own healing. Yes, it is necessary to process and let go (I agree it's not rug sweeping). However, this can't even begin to happen until WSs show remorsefulness. At least that's how I feel about it, that's what a happy reconciliation looks to me. Thank you for showing it is possible!
Fate whispers to her, "You cannot withstand the storm."
She whispers back, "I am the storm."
Topic is Sleeping.
