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[This message edited by Iwanttochange at 3:42 AM, Wednesday, November 20th]

G’day.

Some of the regulars should be along soon and hopefully will flag some good articles to read. You will see Maia’s survival guide. Read that. Some of Daddy Dom’s posts longer posts are also very good.

If you are looking for how to translate some of the advice to an Australian context, like how to get some counseling from a psychologist, subsidized by Medicare, I can be of some help there. You need to go to your GP, they will do a plan, and you should get about 5 sessions with a psychologist with about 2/3 paid for. It will be individual counseling. In my case I was having problems sleeping, and a bit depressed, which was enough of a medical reason.

What books have you read so far?

[This message edited by straightup at 10:11 AM, Sunday, November 20th]

First off, don't worry about your spelling. It's not important. For some of the people who post here, English isn't even their first language, so we are all accustomed to making allowances for writing styles. No worries.

Next, if you look in the pull down menu above, you can pull down a tab for abbreviations in The Healing Library which will help you figure out the terms. I would suggest reading as much as you can. Not every idea will hit home with you, but take them out for a spin anyway. An infidelity crisis is a crossroads in your life, a good time to really question your preprogrammed philosophy.

Thank you for answering my post.

It’s been a long time sense I done wrong to my wife. We are going ok. Some days are better then other. I’m trying to be more sensitive to her needs.

I’ve started a diary. So I know when I’m doing wrong and when I’m doing good.