Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 2:25 PM on Friday, July 22nd, 2022
Your last post is very encouraging . ACTIONS over WORDS...always. BUT...words do MATTER! Hopefully y'alls talk will produce results y'all are both happy with .
The sex part will hopefully improve but I have made it clear that a dead bedroom is not acceptable.. For either of us.. Things change or we will most likely end up divorced.. Sex isn't everything in a marriage, but the lack of it is a big issue.
You have made it clear at what is NOT acceptable . We ALL have things that are important to US. That was one thing I learned from what my H did...and I have kept it up...I DON'T EVER SETTLE. We can come up with a compromise...BUT I won't just accept things HIS way anymore like I used to.
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee