Beagle (original poster member #79560) posted at 12:11 AM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2022
Met with mediator a week and a half ago. Both financial affidavits submitted. This far it looks like a 50/50 split in regard to custody.
There are some disagreements about the value of the home and the amount I need to be paid for the equity. A bank appraisal was done about two months ago before the D and it came in low as all drive by bank appraisals do.
I also find my WW has become a super cu@$. She destroyed me emotionally and her family. I am and continue to remain cordial. She is just an emotionless mess of a human. I really believe she is either a narc or has a lot of those tendencies. She questioned why I wanted half the furnishing if I’m getting an equity buy out. I didn’t even ask for half. Much less. I don’t think she gets it. I’m frustrated , angry , and really traumatized. I don’t even know who this person is anymore. I’m InTherapy twice a week to work though my feelings.
Anyways how have other divorcees people deal with this stuff. Like getting what’s fair etc. we are going through mediation to save from the costs of litigation.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:19 PM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2022
She is clueless and entitled. Treat this a business transaction- explicitly put the value and prove it’s all fair.
It hurts, but she is showing you who she is.
Hang in there. You are almost through this part.
You can do it.
Me: BS 55 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **