Oldwounds ( member #54486) posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, January 7th, 2022
Only if they figure a way to get rid of Mullins and Mancini for nothing.
Well, they have OFFERED them for trade pre-lockout.
So, don't tempt them!
Was awesome watching Mancini at the HR Derby. I was at 20th & Blake for that.
And Ruschman is going to be a stud behind the plate. The O's aren't as far away as one might think!
Our plans to move were in place before that All-Star game was moved to Denver, I am envious you got to see that live and in-person!
Baseball therapy (watching, attending games) has helped my recovery quite a bit, and I really do hope to have more of it with a full summer of games.
It's weird. My post discovery life -- the hopeful vibe of baseball has become even more important to me than ever before.
May your Cubbies rebound as well.
Married 34+ years, together 40+ years
Two awesome adult sons.
Dday 6/16 4-year LTA Survived
Restoration takes time.
"Circumstances don't make the man, they only reveal him to himself." ― Epictetus
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 10:18 PM on Friday, January 7th, 2022
Much of what you posted resonates with me. I am 4 1/2 yrs out from dday 1.
Many of the ways your wife has reacted sounds very similar to the ways my wife has acted.
I'm glad to see you seem to have come to some peace with yourself.
I'm slowly finding my way along this long arduous path.
May 2022 give you what your looking for.
qwert ( new member #57498) posted at 4:24 AM on Monday, January 10th, 2022
Thank you for sharing. It’s been about 5 years for me. I needed to come back and read some reality in recovery or reconciliation. I have been struggling lately with trust and coping.
BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 1:47 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2022
What is your path going forward, Cap? What do you expect the next 5 years to look like?
BW, age 40
Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried to a great guy
I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.
CaptainRogers (original poster member #57127) posted at 3:53 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2022
What do you expect the next 5 years to look like?
Excellent question, Blue. Short version...better. I expect the next 5 to look better. How much? That remains to be seen.
BS: 42 on D-day
WW: 43 on D-day
Together since '89; still working on what tomorrow will bring.
D-Day v1.0: Jan '17; EA
D-day v2.0: Mar '18; no, it was physical