earlydetour ( Member #63207) posted at 4:39 PM on Wednesday, September 1st, 2021
I love and am in love with my FWH. My love for him has remained strong through all of this. What I am struggling with at the moment is knowing that he replaced me so easily at that time, that his love for me was lacking. That nothing was sacred or important enough to keep safe and just ours. Also that he is unaware of how often the A intrudes in my thoughts.
You can love someone deeply, but they and/or the relationship with them is toxic to you. It's ok to end toxic relationships and not accept them in your life.
Aim for the best case & plan for the worst case.When you encounter a detour on life's journey, pick yourself up and MAKE the road YOU want to be on. Finding my own path.