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Your Experiences on Separation & NC with WS

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Marz ( Member #60895) posted at 12:07 AM on Sunday, July 4th, 2021

Email or txt only. Yes or no. The least amount possible.

If it’s not pertinent or relevant just ignore.

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 ThankYah (original poster New Member #79037) posted at 4:33 AM on Sunday, July 4th, 2021

Thanks Marz. Before I saw your post I had texted her "No." It worked. We had a few more emails which I remained calm and logical. She wanted help with something and I let her know I wouldn't because these are the consequences of her own actions and I have no obligation to her or her life anymore. She was being rude saying to come get the rest of my stuff by the end of the month or she'll throw it out. And in her heart she is clean and happy and was faithful all the way through our relationship. Yeah. Real clean. I stopped replying after that.

It's just ridiculous the level of denial and lying to herself.

For so long she did so much to push me away because she thought I was such a terrible person. Well for someone who is getting their wish she seems pretty mad. Could the problem be... DING DING DING! You! No, still blaming me.

I've been on this short apartment lease that I had started when I was still playing the pick me foolishness. Will get a year or so lease soon. I need to get her out of my head. The hope of possible reconciliation with a remorseful WW in the future is an attachment that keeps her too close in my mind. I will focus on Yah instead.

WW started PA April 2021
Living in different apartments with hard 180 since June 2021
Healing and seeing how this plays out.

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Buffer ( Member #71664) posted at 11:55 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

Strength and keep up the 180.

Accountability and responsibility for her actions.

The priority now and for the future is the children.

IC for you, eat healthy and drink water hug those children every chance you get.

One day at a time.


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