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Red9999 (original poster new member #76099) posted at 12:14 PM on Thursday, June 24th, 2021
HI all, Well he finally showed me every account. I was able to go in to each one and look at purchases he made for the last few years. We talked afterwards. There was nothing else he kept from me or anything he has forgotten. I will protect myself more. I will start putting money away for my future just in case. At least now I can start thinking clearly on what I want to do. Thanks all for the advice. I will keep you updated on my progress. Hopefully I can learn to trust, love,, respect him again. Most of all try forgive him. Only time will tell.
Anna123 ( member #70908) posted at 1:29 PM on Thursday, June 24th, 2021
That's good. That has to be such a great relief.
Hopefully I can learn to trust, love,, respect him again. Most of all try forgive him. Only time will tell.
If he is deserving of it, OVER TIME, and continues, over time, to earn the privilege of you continuing to make the effort.
I like that you will be setting aside money in your own account. Good move.
Take care.
stubbornft ( member #49614) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, June 24th, 2021
Great news you will be setting aside money. You can see as time goes if he is deserving of a chance to repair all of the damage he has done.
Keep your focus on yourself. Set aside money, find time to do things that don't involve him. Start to allow yourself to think of a future without him. Set aside money. :)
Think about what you deserve in your life. Remember that you only get one.
Me: BS 40 Him: WS 51 He cheated with massage parlor sex workersDday 01/19/2021
Kicked him out in 2021 - life is better on the other side. Moved on with the help of a wonderful therapist.
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