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TheLostOne2020 ( Member #72463) posted at 1:58 PM on Thursday, April 8th, 2021



We were separated and planning a divorce. I came clean about the affair I had before I moved back in not after. I was upfront and honest about everything. This was also the time I checked in and got clean. After that we worked through everything, I had thought, and we reconciled. Then I moved back in.

While not great, I'm not sure I would go so far as to say this was cheating - but I'm not privy to all the facts and all that.

What I will say is that this is not relevant to the current situation. The current situation seems to be that your spouse has always been in love with her AP and that she considers you the back up.

Do not be the back up, it will only put you in misery.

This isn't about revenge, this isn't about her getting back at you, this isn't about any of that - the question is, can you two be reconciled? Right now, I don't think so - she's in love with someone else. Plus she doesn't seem able to stop cheating.

You should move on.

D-Day 1: New Year's Day 2020
D-Day 2: Jan 21 2020
There was no D-Day 3.

6/12/2020: Moved out.

3/02/2021: Officially divorced.

I'm 42 and just starting to have the answers to the universe...

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asc1226 ( Member #75363) posted at 6:38 PM on Sunday, April 11th, 2021

Moose, how are you holding up? Have you been able to eat and sleep?

I make edits, words is hard

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