Summary: D-day #3 11/24/20. WS on escort sites.
We have had a few conversation about the situation since I confronted him Tuesday. I’ve been pretty good at keeping the focus and not allowing him to turn it on me.
I’ve also been collecting evidence and so I asked questions to see if he was telling me the truth.
Question:When was the last time you sent a message to someone in the website?
Answer: Last week
Lie. I checked his history on his phone. It was the day before.
Question: Are you still chatting with the old (female) friend I know is into you or have you stopped as I asked?
Answer: Well, I sent a Thanksgiving greeting but it was a general one to all my Facebook friends.
Lie. I saw a Facebook messenger history with a long list of conversations about everyday stuff and requests from her to see him. (He didn’t reply to her requests but neither did he say that isn’t going to happen. )
Then today I uncovered evidence that he created new Snapchat and Twitter accounts Wednesday.
I keep feeling like I am calming down and can think clearly then a new piece of evidence sends me into a tail spin. And he isn’t giving me room to think either. Calling all day when he is at work. Insisting we do everything together at home.
Before I get too rambling, here is my question. I haven’t called him out directly. I’ve said I believe you are lying but haven’t said I have proof. I feel if I reveal I have proof he will just change tactics and I won’t be able to find out more. The new accounts are proof of that.
So, when if ever do I show my hand?
P.S. I’ve contacted a therapist and I’m contacting a lawyer.
[This message edited by HatsOff at 11:07 PM, November 28th (Saturday)]