Topic is Sleeping.
FREEFALLNOCHUTE (original poster member #21003) posted at 7:43 AM on Thursday, May 28th, 2020
Am I the only one here who has yet to have a "new beginning"? I am stuck in the quicksand of just making ends meet and haven't had anytime to even begin to begin. Meanwhile ex is frolicking along with a new gal with not a care in the world. His child support ends this month and he just gets to quit helping me. My youngest doesnt want to do anything and I'm stuck with her?? He was the bad guy in all of this why am I still the only one being punished.... FML it'd be easier to just quit this whole mess of a so called life.
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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:41 PM on Thursday, May 28th, 2020
Tell us what is going on with your child. That’s the most important thing you posted.
The XH is always going to be the XH with the same issues he had while you were married. He’s just choosing a different partner to inflict his infidelity and unhappiness and issues on.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
FREEFALLNOCHUTE (original poster member #21003) posted at 1:23 AM on Saturday, May 30th, 2020
She is just hard to deal with...doesnt want to get a job ... wants me to work 12 hour days and clean up after her when i get home. Etc. Im so tired of it
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:04 PM on Saturday, May 30th, 2020
My youngest doesnt want to do anything and I'm stuck with her??
How old is your child? If she is legally an adult, you are not "stuck with her.". She pitches in or she moves out.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 5:24 PM on Sunday, May 31st, 2020
Often, people treat us the way we allow them to treat us 
What are some small steps you can take to demand and receive the respect you seek? 
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
CoderMom ( member #66033) posted at 12:38 AM on Monday, June 1st, 2020
Have you thought about counseling? Your children need you.
Topic is Sleeping.
