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I found out right before Christmas that my wife was having an affair with a 28-year old guy (she is 47) since last February, 2019. I forgave her and in January I found out she had sex with a counselor at the rehab center she would go to. (She’s an alcoholic). This occurred in March of 2019. Then a few weeks later I found out she had sex with a member of AA back in January of 2019. After all that. I was still willing to forgive her and make things work. She had to go back into rehab last month and while there. Her and I had a therapy session where it came out about her having sex with the IOP counselor. The therapist told management and they suspended this douchebag and launched an investigation. Last Monday, representatives from corporate interviewed my wife where she lied and said it never happened and that I’m just a crazy jealous husband who always thinks she’s cheating on me. So, they dropped the case and now the counselor is back to work. Last Wednesday, I went onto her FB messenger to see what’ she was up to and found messages to another guy. She said “My husband don’t know about you. You’re my little secret 😘”. Come to find out, this is number 4.

Well, the fourth guy broke me. He was a 26 year old black guy with a 9” penis. So, I slept with another woman over the weekend. I know everyone says not to do it but my self image was totally shattered. This new woman told me how sexy I am and loved my penis (this mattered due to how inferior I felt to the black guy’s unit). It was the best thing I could have done for myself. The pain I’ve been carrying around is a lot less and the images of my wife with the other men have subsided.

Yesterday I found out that my son is failing classes because he hasn’t had his ADD medication. That’s because my wife has been taking it! 😡 I’ve come to realize that she’s just a deceitful devious woman. She’s been talking about coming home from rehab and sleeping in separate beds.

She slept with a councilor at the rehab center who handled their Intensive Outpatient program. I told the rehab center about this and the wife lied to them saying it never happened and that I’m a jealous crazy husband who thinks she’s sleeping with everyone.. That’s it. I’m done. I don’t want to be married to a person like this anymore. I know there’s someone out there that can love and respect me the way I need. All my wife cares about is herself

I'm sorry you're here. But yes, it is time to move on. Have you met with a lawyer?

Wow, brutal story, Romeo. Good for you on deciding to get out of infidelity. Get a lawyer now, and file.

Sorry you are going through this. But your WW is unstable. She’s a liar and deceitful. Take care of your kids. Make sure they get into counseling. She is causing so much dysfunction in your lives. See an attorney and file for D ASAP. Good luck.