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LilBlackCat ( member #57470) posted at 6:28 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2019
a guy in his 60s, red-faced, asked why I was single and I told him there was a divorce and then a breakup with a boyfriend and he made a joke about how I scared all the men away.
To me this sounds like he was testing the waters to see if you are open to dating...
Remember, not all guys are easy with expressing interest or handle juggling emotions too well..
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, October 14th, 2019
To me this sounds like he was testing the waters to see if you are open to dating...
In hindsight, I believe this is the case as well. A man is not going to ask a woman why she is single if he doesn't find her the least bit attractive. 😁
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2019
I thought so, too, but apparently he had an SO at the time who was going to Canada (a wonderful place, BTW) for a while. When the cats away....
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
LilBlackCat ( member #57470) posted at 5:21 PM on Tuesday, October 15th, 2019
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
MelisssaZZZ ( member #25953) posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2019
Hey IL, good to see you!
Another person from the past :).
I was also thinking that Mr Insensitive has hits for you and it’s trying to get your attention in his own silly way 😀😀. I suspect this is not going to be an end of this 😀😀.
You are doing great and don’t compare you to others as unlikely you know their real issues.. everyone has them.
Maybe try to go out more and meet people. It’s good for your soul even if it does not end in a date or anything.
M
Me BS - 40
WH 42
1 child - 9y
married 5 yrs, together 7
DD1 midmarch 09
DD2 early june 09
some more DD's of course - cannot bother to list
Status: Divorced Oct 2011
Him: not with OW anymore. She grew up and ditched him..
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