SurvivingInfidelity.com^®

The most horrible thing my wife said. She never was really mean to me after D-day but the thing that is forever ingrained in my mind is when she told me she lost all respect for me and I wasn't the man she married.

I never really said anything mean or nasty to my wife. It just wasn't worth it. She on the other hand said something I will never forget. When I first found out, I tried questioning her as to what they did and wanted details. She didn't want to tell me and we were fighting pretty bad. Finally after us fighting for a while I yelled as to what was so special about him. She looked at me and sort of laughed and said, I know he is a lot younger than you but he last a lot longer. (He is 15 years younger than me). When I continued to ask her what she meant, she would just smirk. I ask her what she meant, 5 mins, 10 mins 15 mins, what. She just laughed and said try over a half hour. SO I just looked at her and said, so he just bangs you full out as hard as he could for over a half hour. And she said yes. And when I asked what she did while he was doing that, she replied, I just lay there and cum 2 or 3 times. I just said , I guess he's better than me because I don't think porn stars can do than non stop, and just walked away. Today she says she just said those things to shut me up because we were fighting and I was questioning her so much. Even if it's true, I told her I will never forget it.

[This message edited by 99lawdog99 at 5:52 AM, April 28th (Friday)]

Hello everyone. BS here and my first post too.

The worst I have said to WW was:

Me: "WTF! AP#1 from work? The one your boss calls 'Fifty Shades'? Also, I got a call from AP#2's wife last night and we had an interesting conversation."

Her(WW): "I don't know what to say. Do you want me to move out?"

Me: "Yes."

She moved out that night. The only other time I have seen her or spoken to her was the following weekend when she and friends moved her heavy furniture out. Haven't heard from her again.

WH is bipolar and has attempted suicide in the past. So when I told him I wished he'd been successful, I knew how much that would hurt him. But it was true. I absolutely meant it. Being a grieving widow would have hurt, but nothing like his lies have.

I don't currently wish him dead, but that was my truth at the time.

I said my worst thing the last time I saw him. I'm 7 weeks out from dday and he took me to dinner before I left for a business trip to the town we lived in when the A started, so It must have triggered me. I said "if you see her while I'm gone I will snap her neck and I will kill you too."

Terrible thing to say, and I didn't mean it literally. I didn't plan to say it and I've never said anything like that to anyone before. I think I just wanted him to understand the depth of my pain.