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Here's an update. D will be final in a couple more weeks hopefully. DS is living with me and DD2 is living with cheating STBXW. OBS texted me last week telling me my STBXW tried to contact her husband again to rekindle the affair, 3 months after I threw her out of the house. The number was not blocked since it is a new number. POSOM told his wife immediately and they both sent NC texts to my STBXW at the same time. My STBXW chose to text the OBS back and tell her some things that "further drove the knife into her heart". The OBS told me her and the POSOM are in R., both in IC and MC together. She is trying to save her marriage to a POS serial cheater. I pray she finds her way and her family can heal. I was not given details, but the OBS told me I was definitely better off without her in my life. OBS also told me STBXW told lie upon lie and had no remorse for what she did to me. STBXW also told OBS that she has reconciled with her kids (not true, kids are bitter and think differently of their mother now). I am on the road to healing and feeling better about my new reality. This text brought me back to DD1 and gave me a couple of lost nights of sleep. I'm in divorce care counseling and it is helping. Hey you all, stay strong and know there is light at the end of the dark tunnel. It just seems like it is going to be dark forever. It isn't. You can get through this. Have faith, and God bless.

I'm sorry your WW and soon to be XW had no remorse or guilt or respect to leave the other BS alone.

Wow!! Talk about selfish and crazy!

I hope you heal and continue to find joy with your children.

So sorry for you. Your STBXW is a piece of work.

in a way the silver lining is now you can be 100% sure you made the correct decisions earlier. imagine having tried to R and getting name nailed like this.