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Searching by strictly IP address uncovered 3 more AM profiles for my fWH. None had his correct birthdate and that is common I can tell. One was even a female profile which fWH said he used for research but it wasn't used much (most dates blank).

One of the email addresses was still active so we opened that in gmail and I could see when last used and what remained that hadnt been deleted I saw Craigslist responses most of which were obvious scams but still showed he was also still perusing and responding to ads until Spring of 2014.

Sadly the three new AM account discoveries were used during first 9 months after DD. FWH says he was addicted to the fantasy and didn't meet anyone. We'll see....

He has now finally agreed to a lie detector.

We followed page 10 instructions. Thanks for those.

We renamed the files to .csv and used free version of pilotedit (after trying various other text reader tools). We bought an external drive for this project. The files open slowly and search took awhile. Using find next repetitively worked better than find all in pilotedit. Find all processed long and showed counts but rows didnt contain fWHs info. Find next marched thru and found what we we were looking for consecutively with correct row detail highlighted.

[This message edited by whattheh at 9:53 AM, August 31st (Monday)]

I know this has been asked already and I'm sure we'd all know if a way existed, but I'm desperate. Does anyone know a way to see dates, when an account was created/used? I have to know. :(

Slide095...right there with you

Sorry to hear it gumby bc I know how you feel, I can't eat, can't sleep, can't function until I have an answer. I don't know what to do. Hugs to you.

2 of the logs for sure, CC transactions are the best

Can you search your CC history for ALM Media?

I tried searching cc. That only goes back to 2013 and no hits with what I could search.

I only saw profile template messages, i have not found any photos in the dump. That would be to big a dump. probably very unlikely to have photos ever and all messages.

If you are after your spouse, the CC transactions tell all. You can use most good text editors and simply search your address through "find in files" or just your zip, first or last name.

The cc files show up as a different excel file for every day . How can you search without having to open every single day's file?

Slide095...Idk how far past dday you are, but do not let this destroy you. I have bad days for sure, but I've come to the realization that while I need to know dates for he puzzle to be worked, Ultimately it's just another "something" and it doesn't change the fact that it happened and can't be changed. I just need to know if there is more to know kwim?. Dates aren't going to change the fact that this shit happened, but I will for sure help my brain in the big sorting..and big hugs to you too

[This message edited by blindsidedgumby at 3:32 PM, August 31st (Monday)]

Thank u for the kindness gumby and you are right.

For me this might mean another dday but it depends on the creation dates of his accounts. I can't download the torrent myself without tipping my hand to him.

I'm worried that it's not safe to download it anymore too, stuff I'm reading says it could have viruses and of course that it's stolen so I don't know what to do. :-( I really need this info.

I'm nervous about the site you can pay for the info, too, but I need to know. This is the worst week I've had in years all I do is cry.

Slide095. ..i understand completely. I however refuse to cry anymore. 1 dd or 50...it's all the same to me at this point. I just want to know dates so I know if it happened around the same time or not..do I consider it will i consider it another dd..nope. ..he Fucking cheated for over a year so in reality to me it one in the same. Hugs girly. ..have a glass of wine and relax.. i hope we get the dates we need, but regardless. ..they were on there :/

sooo the company that lied about profiles and statistics is now saying that they are growing and we believe this why?

I believe it, more "curiosity" especially now. Look AM and this bot issue that gizmodo is desperately trying to understand only comes from fragments. Bots always existed on AM even way back. There was a huge backlash years ago about it and yet many act like it is new.

Truth is, many women did/do use AM, many not as female but a lot as male. There are lots of ripped apart families as a result of AM and the affairs created and BOTS did not do that.

Read this well from someone who was gong to go in the business.

Ashley Madison is not in the business of "Affairs" there is no money in it. Ashley Madison is in the business of "fantasy" and keeping it going.

I know of quite a few women for example that used male accounts, found other males, messaged, exchanged photos and emails in a way that AM message/chat would not block and take the affair off AM and onto another medium. << There is no money in that.

AM has to keep the fantasy going and keep the chase on. That is where the money is. AM would have never been as big had it not produced results sadly for those looking for the affair. So many single men though were after married women which was not a good match for a long time as "everything to lose" vs "nothing to lose" was unattractive. However that also changed somewhat.

AM is a business and perhaps many just like the chase but affairs don't make money. It is a "wam-bam thank you mam" transaction that does not produce long $$ chats and $$ messages. AM got better at keeping people there but the faster to an affair, the less time on AM. think about it.

So don't discredit the great many that chose to use AM as their means of cheating and their BS's that have suffered for it at the recent press all focused on the meat of the business, bots, messages and chats and how "fake it all is" believe at your own peril.

[This message edited by atreides at 12:51 AM, September 1st (Tuesday)]

Dump is again word of the day. Are there more info on getting the data in another topic group? Investigative group?

Can you believe more people signed up on AM after the fact? Who is waiting to sue their life out? And now it seems a sin to ask milk fir tea by email???

Also keep in mind that many people have multiple profiles.

My WH had five and one was female profile. He said many men responded to his fake female profile.

I also believe many BS are setting up profiles to look around.

I recently set up several profiles using a separate email address not my real one, on hookup sites with my WH beside me to look at men. We were looking for his profile so he could ask to have it removed. He deleted the secret email assoc with sites.

My fake female profile have suggestive screen names and says to read if you are a married man. Then the profile goes on to say I'm looking for my cheating husband. One man looked twice and that >was funny. It was a little therpeutic for me.

Who knew hornywife is managed likely owned by adult friend finder? Well thanks to WH I do now know this morbid fact.

[This message edited by whattheh at 5:10 PM, September 1st (Tuesday)]

i would like to hear mrs. amanda biderman speak about her new nightmare and the pain of betrayal. the depth of lies he told her... Had the leak not happened she would still be promoting this site and smiling about how her husband is faithful but of course, neither of them have been seen in days -- where's the boastful proudness now noel

I literally said to someone, this couldn't get any worse...well now emails have been found of him secretly running an escort service-- this man is trash.

http://www.businessinsider.com/ashley-madison-owner-avid-life-ran-escort-service-says-daily-dot-2015-9 trash.

[This message edited by destiny777 at 12:30 PM, September 3rd (Thursday)]

The post cannot be found. It sickens me though if this is the case.

@hopefulmommy... I feel your pain. I also found H email on the list but I had no real reason to be suspicious except for my gut feeling. I have no other info. It's making me crazy. I don't even know if I should confront him with this. Did you already let your h know that you found him on the search? How did you come across files to search?

All of this is so new to me and there just doesn't seem to be anymore sites to lactate data. They keep shutting down!

Why is'nt anybody else letting us search. I have to resort to pay trustify? Are the messages written by these jerks in the dump?

The data are up to when?

What is a 98$ and a 19$ charge buying?

The data are up to when?

What is a 98$ and a 19$ charge buying?

Can you believe more people signed up on AM after the fact?

I created an account after the fact because I wanted to see if my wife still had pictures before I confronted her. I think most of the accounts that were created after the hack are by people trying to catch their spouse.