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stunnedagain ( new member #49200) posted at 1:56 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Thanks BaggageReclaimed. This provided a few additional details not found on the ashleymadison.sucks site.

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mharris ( member #46683) posted at 1:57 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Y'all need to check out that site before it gets shut down. It does have accurate info.

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stunnedagain ( new member #49200) posted at 2:03 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Yep, it's accurate. I can see part of former home address, profile caption, and a status that shows possible cc transactions. These are like teaser sites, giving us pieces of the puzzle.... driving me insane. I just need a dump of the data.

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somer222 ( member #21377) posted at 2:17 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

I can attest to the fact that it is accurate. I just entered a nickname my ex idiot used on all of his dating profiles and he came up - he was on Ashley Madison.

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healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 2:21 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

It doesn't seem to have the credit card info.

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mharris ( member #46683) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Were the messages and chats dumped? I can't remember.

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helpme03 ( member #46083) posted at 2:38 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Just an FYI on that .cr site, I searched on the e-mail address that I used to take control of WW's account where no transactions occurred, and it said "Possible transactions." I entered a random e-mail from a list of credit card transactions in my state that I downloaded, and it listed the actual transactions. I guess "Possible transactions" is just a teaser they put when they don't find anything.

Met/ In relationship 9 years
Married 7 years
BH 42-me
WW 40
2 kids, 1 each from previous marriage (none together)
Dday Dec 25 2014
In MC, Reconciled

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GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 2:48 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

I get no results and I did with ashleysucks...

On ashleymadisonsucks it appears that he paid to have the acct delted so maybe that's why I don't get anything..

[This message edited by GreatRoleModel at 10:03 PM, August 25th, 2015 (Tuesday)]

BS (me)
XNPDWS
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

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Brokenwingsnow ( new member #47239) posted at 3:17 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Thanks for the info. The credit card transactions match what I found on his bank statements, he spent just under $2,000, using a caption of Just looking for fun...wow, just wow.

Me - BW 51
Him - WH 52
DDay - 3/13/15
Together 11 year, married 5, never had an anniversary where he hasn't been cheating.

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jendo ( member #43059) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Thank you for posting that link. Didn't find anything. Guess that's good.

BW Me (40ish)- now closer to 50
WH Him (40ish)- now closer to 50
Kids ages 10-20- now 18-28
Married 20 years- no2 28 years
OW 27- passed away 2/4/15 from cervical cancer
DDay 4/3/14- 6 month EA - Yes, I know he could be lying and

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KickedintheGut ( member #30086) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Can anyone tell me what the Date Updated is about? He has told me the truth about usernames and when he signed up, but the date updated looks like it's after the email addresses were closed.

Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11

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healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 4:24 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

That's the time of the last change to the profile. It could be from the cheater editing it, or from the system making some sort of automated update.

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imsickofyou ( new member #49164) posted at 5:01 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Just tried the new link for info on the AM stuff and it isn't working. Anyone else having luck now?

Married almost 25 years.
Two children.

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sad81712 ( member #37418) posted at 6:07 AM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

I'm 3 years out from finding my WH had an account on AM....I'm so sad & tired of infidelity!!

We were well into R until my gut told me to check and find all I can on the AM dump....I wanted to just double check that he has told me all the truth.

I did check and I found he was still lying. I'm drained...I knew he was on it, I learned he paid for hookers, But for some strange reason he kept lying about paying for AM! Why would he do that???? He's just so sick and broken.

My question....the site that gave the lat & long coordinates....how accurate are they? I feel they are off...at first I thought that my wh did all the from work but the Lat & long say its close to our home. The only way he could have done it from our home is from his phone or his nook reader.....

Told him tonight I'm call an attorney tomorrow...

"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-52 WH-51
Married 25yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012

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mharris ( member #46683) posted at 12:41 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Allaboutashley.cr is still up.

The latitude and longitude were very accurate for my husband's accounts. They were not identical, but extremely close to our home.

As far as the updated date goes, I think a system update is making that look like the account holder did it, but didn't. Several of my fake accounts were closed for years, but it said they were updated in '11 or '12.

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Waiting2Xhale ( member #48875) posted at 1:09 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Are there any sites up that you can search by zip code/state?

Me - FWS/BS 46
WH - 46
EA with HS Sweetheart (1/15 - 9/15) Didn't evolve into PA only because she wouldn't meet up with him
Dday - 8/6/15
Passed Polygraph, In R

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Drishti ( member #49187) posted at 1:21 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

Thanks BaggageReclaimed! I would like to see the different forms of the database. I found my husband on the .sucks version but not the .cr version. On the .sucks version I searched by zip and birthdate.

Part of me is glad to see people pay the piper, but hardly any real people know that my husband went off the deep end a few years ago and it would devastate my kids, so I hope it never comes to a stable name-searchable site!!!!

The best way out is always through--Robert Frost

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BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 1:33 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

The .cr site wasn't working last night; thanks for telling us it is up again.

I joined AM a couple months after DDay; I guess I didn't couldn't believe that it really was for what they claimed. My account was 'live' for twelve minutes, and about nine minutes in, with a mostly blank profile, I received a message from a guy in a neighboring city. I was sick to my stomach; it was definitely one of the worst triggers I've had. I 'permanently hid' my account immediately afterward.

I don't remember my password (and the AM site isn't sending out links to reset, apparently), so I was at least able to see what information they had about me - because I sure don't remember what I put in there. :-/

I used a zip from a nearby town and put my birthday as the day WH had sex with AP1 (my birth year). The result showed that I had 'possible transactions' but I assure you that I didn't even pay to permanently delete my account. I'm sharing that information so that others might know that 'possible transactions' might not mean that there were any transactions after all.

BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks

"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."

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mharris ( member #46683) posted at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

I think possible transaction = no transaction, but I believe that they want to plant a seed of doubt so that you will pay for premium services to investigate.

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BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 2:03 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

mharris,

I thought I'd read elsewhere that possible transactions meant guaranteed transactions, though I may be misremembering. I can say that I've entered about 15-20 'nickname' guesses on that site and each one has 'possible transactions', so who knows?

BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks

"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."

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