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The Birthday Thread!

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sadone29 ( Member #38597) posted at 4:55 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013

Thanks! :)

DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.

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41andthankful ( Member #38650) posted at 8:03 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2013

March 16th

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brokensunflower ( Member #38674) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013

dec 7th ill be 32

me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12

my give a damn is busted

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dlmos ( Member #36839) posted at 4:39 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013

March 18th for me!

BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

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keeponkeepingon ( Member #32935) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013

Today is my birthday! Happy birthday to me! Another day of disappointment.....

"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

So many new march birthdays, I had to do them today!

Check for yours if you mentioned one!

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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MilitaryFairy ( New Member #38762) posted at 7:38 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

June 16,I will be 34

Would you still call them Heroes if you knew how they treated their spouses?

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5454real ( Member #37455) posted at 7:49 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

June 6th. Big 50!

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Stillhurting1977 ( Member #37247) posted at 7:52 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

I am April 17 and I will be 29! Kidding, lol. I'll be 36

D day Sept 2011
D Day # 2 March 15, 2013 (he never stopped the first affair, it went underground)
Me BW 36
Him WH 37
One little guy: 26 months
Status: Seperated, Divorcing

" Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent" Eleanor Ro

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pizzalover ( Member #38336) posted at 12:21 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

April 26. I'll be 38

Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09

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MYBOYSMOM ( Member #26318) posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013

Tomorrow, March 28, I'll turn 50. I have to say that this bday will be immensely better than number 40!

BW 49(me)
WH - doesn't matter anymore
Married: 23 years; DS18, DS16
D-Day: 9/1/2009, D:12/21/2009

"It's a new dawn, It's a new day, It's a new life, for me, and I'm feeling good..." Michael Buble

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 1:18 AM on Sunday, March 31st, 2013

Updated as of March 30

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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Crumbled324 ( Member #33902) posted at 12:00 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013

45 today.

2 years ago a little less than 2 weeks after DDay I spent my birthday sitting in a Bankruptsy Attourny's office and all I could think about was how the hell did my life get here?

This year R is going well, and it looks like we are going to be able to keep the house. Things CAN get better.

BH: 47
fWW: 46
Beautiful 9 year old daughter
Married 23 years, Together 29 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling

Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.

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Stronglost9977 ( New Member #39027) posted at 10:44 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013

Stonglost9977

July 1

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heyjules2012 ( New Member #38349) posted at 4:19 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

My bday is June 5. It will be a tough one to get thru as I share same month as OW.

BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R

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BetrayedinWIHusb ( Member #11999) posted at 7:04 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

January 14......many, many years ago

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 2:39 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

It's that time again!

Get your entries in soon if you have May birthdays!

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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Sad in AZ ( Member #24239) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

Updating my birthday: 8/8/1984--that's right; I'm only 29. Stop laughing.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Laura28 ( Member #28997) posted at 12:14 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

Hi BR

Thanks so much for organising this thread

My birthday is listed as the 17th August (1956 but don't tell anyone )

I'm actually the 18th.

But then again, when it falls in Oz on the 18th it is actually the 17th in the US.

So if my birthday really falls on the 18th but you list it as the 17th, my Oz friends will wish me happy birthday a day early and my US and UK friends on the day.

Mmmmm. What to do????

Just joshing.

I really don't mind either way. It is such a great thing for you to do.

Thanks and BIG HUGS

Laura

Married 33yrs Me BW 59Yrs Him FWH 62yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

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Chria ( Member #14090) posted at 1:05 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

July 29th. I will be 21 (again)

The odds are greatly against you being immensely smarter than everyone else in the field. If your analysis says your terminal velocity is twice the speed of light, the chances are better that you've screwed up than you've invented warp drive.

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