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megs56 ( Member #40791) posted at 9:16 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013

January 17th :)

2013:
Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

2014 - I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.

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SurelyNOT ( Member #40617) posted at 3:02 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

March 24th

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Dawn58 ( Member #37656) posted at 4:57 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

Just celebrated my 55th

September 23

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

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NoAnswers37 ( Member #40592) posted at 5:12 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013

20 March

Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

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mellie99 ( Member #39712) posted at 4:53 AM on Saturday, October 5th, 2013

Aug 5 here :)

Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 6:38 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2013

<---------UPdated to here

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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suposd2btheonly1 ( Member #40753) posted at 10:44 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2013

May 16

Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

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cantaccept ( Member #37451) posted at 4:48 PM on Tuesday, October 8th, 2013

October 14th.

After last year, it has to be better, right???

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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FoggedIn ( Member #40329) posted at 7:24 PM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013

October 12th

39 this year!

XO

BW (40)
WH (55)
Blended family, 6 kids, 1 dil & i gd
Dday 1 8/10/13 PA ONS CL whore
DDay 2 8/15/15 -TT 3 Other PA w/escorts from 2004-2013? Not sure on dates. Status - No Clue!! Calling D attorney for advice

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velvethammer ( Member #40437) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, October 9th, 2013

November 3rd. Turning 40!

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kickboxer ( Member #39858) posted at 7:23 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

10/9 - Yesterday!

BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 15 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

posts: 253   ·   registered: Jul. 18th, 2013   ·   location: Somewhere Out There
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 7:25 PM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013

June 12th.

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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DCP21 ( New Member #40061) posted at 6:03 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

October 21st (my 50th!)

BS: 49
WS: 53
Girl/Boy - 25/20
Married 26 years

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Drowninginitall ( Member #40968) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

March 13 is my bday

BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16

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MakingLemonade ( Member #41143) posted at 7:40 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

December 19th

Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

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ruby44 ( Member #41135) posted at 8:26 PM on Friday, November 1st, 2013

November 16th

Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.

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Bebba1171 ( Member #33857) posted at 6:43 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013

march 19

Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

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Flatlined123 ( Member #35862) posted at 11:17 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013

January 8. I'm ageing like a fine wine.

Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

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LMomof2 ( Member #41064) posted at 8:03 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013

Thank you for this thread. My birthday is May 11

LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

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Hotmama ( New Member #41374) posted at 11:40 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

November 20th if you are still updating.

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