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sicatrose ( Member #52243) posted at 7:24 AM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016

October 6

Better to be hurt by truth, than comforted with a lie.

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Starsurges ( New Member #55112) posted at 4:41 PM on Monday, September 12th, 2016

My birthday is November 4th :)

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RoburCordis ( Member #55218) posted at 10:01 PM on Thursday, September 29th, 2016

July 17th!!

Me: BH 40
WW: 37
DD: Which one?
Separated and rebuilding my life.

'I’ve learned that life is one crushing defeat after another until you just wish Flanders was dead' - Homer Simpson.

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AllButGone ( New Member #53847) posted at 10:34 AM on Sunday, October 2nd, 2016

May 28th!

Me- BS 43
Him- WS 40
12 years
1st DD- Spring of 2009 and 5 years into our relationship
Subsequent DDs- I'm not good with dates and was still reeling from the first DD. Nothing but TT except for one.

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18yearsgone ( Member #54809) posted at 4:32 AM on Saturday, October 8th, 2016

My birthday is tomorrow - oct 8!

47 and in my late 40s!

Me - 47
WH - 46
M - 18 years / together 22
Husband passed away suddenly in February.
Working on trust and betrayal stuff on my own now.
Dday 8/18 LTA online / sexting (18 months of secrets)
PA unknown

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Unhinged ( Member #47977) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, October 16th, 2016

March 2

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

posts: 6361   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2015   ·   location: Colorado
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Isthereanyhope ( Member #53948) posted at 3:35 AM on Monday, October 17th, 2016

October 29!

Me- MH
Him- MH
Together 20 years (married 18)
Divorced!!!

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TrustGone ( Member #36654) posted at 3:40 PM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2016

Today!!!!! Happy Birthday to me!!!!

XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 4:45 AM on Wednesday, November 2nd, 2016

Updated to here!

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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dejavu2 ( Member #54508) posted at 6:05 AM on Thursday, November 3rd, 2016

November 10th I'll be 45. Right around the corner...ugh.

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GuyInPain ( Member #55899) posted at 10:25 PM on Thursday, November 3rd, 2016

August 7

GuyInPain

Me: BH, married to fWW & committed to her 'till death us do part'
DD1: 1983, EA, followed by TT & MC
DD2: 1999, original EA revealed as PA, followed by more TT & no MC
DD3: 2016, TT ended, now FT; R underway + IC & MC

posts: 65   ·   registered: Nov. 3rd, 2016
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GeoHeart ( Member #55800) posted at 11:43 PM on Sunday, November 6th, 2016

December 25

D-day: August 2016
Status: Trying R

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DixieDiamondfly ( Member #34830) posted at 4:40 AM on Wednesday, November 23rd, 2016

December 1st

BS: Me, 56 yrs. young
XWS: Him, 60 yo
KIDS: 33 yo son, 31 yo son, 25 yo daughter...and three wonderful grandsons and a beautiful granddaughter.
Married 34 yrs.
D-Day #1: 2/8/12
D-Day #2: 7/16/2012
D-Day #3: 3/29/2015
Divorced!

posts: 182   ·   registered: Feb. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Gulf Coast
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Lnlygirl1698 ( New Member #55706) posted at 6:41 PM on Sunday, November 27th, 2016

September 19

BW Me 48
WH 50
D-Day 5/16/16
OW Frmr HS GF
EA 1-2/2016 to 8/2016
M 18y tgthr 20y
2 DD's 17 & 15
Still in DEEP PAIN; not sure where the Winds will take me. Whether I get caught in the trees or I'm soaring to the clouds; I will be free.

posts: 23   ·   registered: Oct. 21st, 2016   ·   location: Michigan
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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 1:22 PM on Saturday, December 3rd, 2016

Updating!

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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longforgotten ( Member #48997) posted at 2:26 AM on Thursday, December 15th, 2016

My birthday is very hard for people to remember. Because it's so ordinary. July 4th.

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RisingFromTheAshes ( Member #56142) posted at 2:41 PM on Friday, December 16th, 2016

My bday is September 10. I'm already dreading it b/c pa started on the 9th. Oye.

You brought the flames and you put me through hell
I had to learn how to fight for myself
And we both know all the truth I could tell
I'll just say this is "I wish you farewell"

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ont1throw ( New Member #56534) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, December 28th, 2016

December 6 ... it was fun as I didn't know yet

Me: M 41
WW: W38
Together 15 years, Married for 12
3 Kids under 10
DDay: Late Dec 2016
Affair: 11 months with COW, EA and then PA

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atalosss ( Member #47882) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, January 1st, 2017

Probably to late for an update but I feel like celebrating this year 🙌!

January 5th

"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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Backslider ( Member #54066) posted at 10:15 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2017

December 30

Me - BW 57, WH 58, OW 65 ha
M 28 years, D day 1/2017
One of us is working on the D paperwork, the other is dragging his heels "in case things don't work out." Spare me, I ain't no Plan B woman!

posts: 114   ·   registered: Jul. 9th, 2016   ·   location: California
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