tessthemess ( member #56395) posted at 1:58 PM on Sunday, January 8th, 2017
August 27, I'm coming up on 35!
Free Bird, 36. STBXH, 36
EA confirmed Nov. '16, PA exposed Dec 11, 2016.
No longer a mess.
Separated and heading towards D as of June 1, 2018.
"It's a good life if you don't weaken." - Gord Downie
pink carnation ( member #34310) posted at 7:32 AM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2017
Mine is this Sunday, January 15!!!
2010 was Ddays galore and my INDEPENDENCE! Happily remarried to someone else!
Someone who cannot clearly choose you, is not worth you time or your tears.
Don't pass up on the chance on a do over, when it is handed to you on a silver
Trippd ( member #56128) posted at 1:40 AM on Wednesday, January 11th, 2017
Me: BS; Him:XWF (jerkwad); DS: 4yo
Together 7 years; current in home separation.
Dday: 11/21/16; 3 yrs of cyber & phys hookups
AppleGirl ( member #50791) posted at 1:47 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2017
January 17th. Turning a fabulous 50 in 5 short days!
BS me -50+, fWH - 50+
DDay fall 2015, Reconciling one day at a time
"You express the truth of your character with the choice of your actions" - unknown
"Everyone deserves the chance to fly..."
Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 1:49 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2017
DDay: 6/2016
“Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better. Every problem comes to Break Us or Make Us. The choice is ours whether to be Victim or Victor.” - unknown
TamBak ( member #56848) posted at 11:36 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2017
My birthday is January 25th
just found out on the 10th
Also Anniversary on the 30th
So looking to be an interesting month.
[This message edited by TamBak at 5:38 AM, January 13th (Friday)]
wanted2believe ( member #55889) posted at 2:30 PM on Friday, January 13th, 2017
"Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing."
shellbean ( member #56536) posted at 12:35 AM on Sunday, January 15th, 2017
Together 29 years, M 20 years
Dday1 11/3/16 Dday2 11/1/17
PA '96-'98, PA Aug.'15-Nov.'16 Same AP
EA '09-'11
We are reconciled and doing well
michelles ( new member #49451) posted at 3:18 PM on Monday, January 16th, 2017
ME: 37 years
WS: 38 years
Together: 7 years
separated 31st May 2015
DDAY: 05/15/2015; 05/30/2015
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2017
Updating my notes today. 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:19 AM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2017
August 1. A Leo, through and through!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
HTheIs ( member #56058) posted at 4:20 PM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2017
April 18th - Yay Aries! (though I know technically I'm on the cusp LOL)
D-Day 11-8-16
Together 6 years in 2/2017
Engaged since 2/2014
Me:33
WF:28
2 beautiful kids, ages 2 and 1
Neznayou ( member #40654) posted at 5:53 PM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2017
May 25. Gemini. Emeralds. Lilly of the Valley. Memorial Day weekend and the "official" beginning of summer. 
Him: BH 1969
Me: WW 1973
Wedding: April 9, 1994
Son: 1998 (college freshman)
Son: 2002 (high school freshman)
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
I do not have it all together.
Candyman66 ( member #52535) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, January 17th, 2017
6 Sept 1949 
OrdinaryDude ( member #55676) posted at 6:47 AM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2017
December 28th...I just turned the big Five - Oh!
I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.
CheatedOn34 ( new member #56967) posted at 5:09 AM on Thursday, January 19th, 2017
November 17. I'll be turning the double nickel!
Just found this site; wish I had found it before. D-day 1 year anniversary coming up.
HaggisBuff ( new member #57044) posted at 3:10 AM on Saturday, January 28th, 2017
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 12:53 AM on Wednesday, February 1st, 2017
Updated to here.
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Numis67 ( member #57209) posted at 5:05 AM on Wednesday, February 1st, 2017
Infidelity is not simply a mistake. It is a series of decisions made for selfish reasons at the expense of a significant other.
ShovelGal ( member #57020) posted at 4:32 AM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
February 2nd...just realized its tomorrow lol.
“If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.”
The dream broke 3/29/16, still picking up the pieces
