BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:24 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2026
so sad. I hope you and your son have gotten some therapy to help, You can’t save her if she doesn’t want to be saved. Glad you saved you and your son..
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 12:44 PM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2026
Please know you did your best and did absolutely everything possible to help her.
You can see how far removed she is — she simply cannot choose anything over alcohol. She didn’t want to change or get sober — she wants to remain trapped in the dark room of addiction.
Wishing you & your family the best.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.