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Just Found Out :
Trying to keep calm, understanding and be kind, but I'm so hurt.

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fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, June 3rd, 2026

Thanks for the update. It is positive. It appears your WW is capable of remorse and doing the work on herself to try and rebuild trust. Watch her actions and not her words. It is possible to successfully R. You heal you, and your WW heals herself and together you heal the M. Always value yourself. Good luck.

Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.

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 petecarparts (original poster new member #87404) posted at 9:51 PM on Wednesday, June 3rd, 2026

Thank you.

I know it's early on, but if I don't hope for the best I know I'll get stuck in a loop of making myself sick with worry, doubt and dealing with broken trust.

I'm trying to see my friends, work on my music, try and ride my bike or spend time outside, but it's hard to gather up the motivation some days/times. Right now I'm sitting at work and was having a sort of decent day and then my stomach got all wound up again.

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do.

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