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Thumos ( member #69668) posted at 11:22 PM on Thursday, June 10th, 2021
Trust your gut. It is rarely wrong. Sometimes it is wrong. Most of the time it is not.
INitiating sex could have all sorts of causes, which have nothing to do with infidelity, as has already been pointed out.
But it is your gut feeling something is up that is actually the bigger red flag.
Yet you have literally nothing to go on save for your gut feeling.
I was in a similar position. Many others were. Merits some careful digging. There are ways of finding out information.
"True character is revealed in the choices a human being makes under pressure. The greater the pressure, the deeper the revelation, the truer the choice to the character's essential nature."
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TheWrongOne ( member #78753) posted at 3:12 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
Trust the gut. It never lies.
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 6:44 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
Increased libido could be a sign of hormonal changes, or a need for intimacy or simple stress relief. Did you ask her what was going on, maybe?
like: "I'm not complaining at all, but where is this all coming from??"
Yeah, I hear it and I don't discount "trust your gut", but if you think this is hysterical bonding due to cheating, you would be well served to gather evidence instead of just guessing.
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Happenedtome2 ( member #68906) posted at 8:30 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
I have to agree with Bigger. I went back and read your earlier post. You were given a ton of information and suggestions on how to proceed and gather evidence. Have you done any of that?
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