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sleeplessincali (original poster member #50650) posted at 12:08 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2020
D One,
Yes, think the HB helpes to connect, but it comes with a lot of conflicting emotions and pain as well so soon after DD.
Me:BS/SAHM on DDAY Oct 31 2015
I'm now a working mom with a BA in Advertising.
Him:Getting better
Change is not easy, but growth demands it.
Walkingthewire ( member #69084) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2020
We did not separate either. Although he said that he understood if I wanted him to leave or when he went to work the next day after dday, the kids and I be gone. To make it clear thats not what he wanted. But understood if that was the path I chose to take.
The thing is, I love him. I never stopped. He said he would sleep on the couch but a couple hours after I told him to, I went to the living room and asked him to come back to bed. I can't sleep without him next to me.
So no, the choice to separate was not an option. it was all or nothing. Nothing else matters. I was very conflicted. One and only second chance. He better not fuck it up.
Married 18 yearsBS (me) 37WH 38. 13year old boy, 9 year old girl (Idiopathic Pulmonary Hemosiderosis)A Sept 2018 (while he was overseas)D-Day Dec 9 2018Working towards R
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