Married 15 years
BS (me) 36
11 year old boy
7 year old girl (Idiopathic Pulmonary Hemosiderosis)
A Sept 2018 (while he was overseas)
D-Day Dec 9 2018
Working towards R
Mother in law
First, I’d like to say that I love my MIL. In almost 20 years, I’ve never had an issue with her and love her more than my own mom most days. She’s always been there for me, even when H and I spilt briefly (we were still dating)
AP contacted my FIL (though he is in no way a part of our lives) and told him about H’s A. He then contacted my MIL(they are divorced) and she called my H over to her house. This was last year. Last September to be exact, so 1 year out from A.
Somehow a couple weeks ago we got on topic sort of related to the A and she looks dead at my H and says ‘you just can’t be alone can you baby?’ It was kinda in a condescending sweet tone. But it was the way she said it. And it’s not the first time she said it. I just got up and walked outside. Nothing else was said about it. She’s always been on my side of this fucked up fence and still is. Idk if she meant it as an excuse or as a slam at him for doing what he did.
Idk. It’s just bugged me ever since.
15 comments posted: Thursday, October 8th, 2020