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David512 (original poster new member #60860) posted at 2:54 PM on Friday, January 19th, 2018
Pineapple - this is good stuff, thank you.
If you haven't already, check out the Men Only Time to Regain Respect for FWW thread in I Can Relate. LifeIsCrazy has a comment there that might give you a different perspective.
I had to dig, here is the link for anyone following this thread in the future, http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=191040&AP=281
David512 (original poster new member #60860) posted at 3:01 PM on Friday, January 19th, 2018
A few of you have mentioned that you've changed with mention for better and worse.
Some of the good that comes from this is understanding myself a little better. I've learned more about myself than I knew before.
In terms of change for those who stayed, despite your satisfactions what are the good and bad changes you experienced?
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 12:43 AM on Saturday, January 20th, 2018
In terms of change for those who stayed, despite your satisfactions what are the good and bad changes you experienced?
The Bad:
Triggers
Haunting memories from the time the A was going on
The Good:
I am actively OWNING the A
My STRENGTH has grown
My H cherishes me now
My H thinks about ME before doing anything
My H stopped watching porn on his own
My H stopped drinking on his own
We do daily Bible Study
We communicate much better
We show more love to each other than we ever have
We spend as much time together as we can
We truly ENJOY each other's company more deeply now
We are making new memories to combat the old ones
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
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