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Niece wants to be FB friends

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 Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 7:06 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2022

Hubby's family and our family have had a falling out. Long story but i didnt think they (sister s in law and MIL) treated my kids (or me) well.

Havent seen them in 4 years and havent spoken in 1.5 years.

One of mean jellybean sister in law's kids just tried to friend me on Facebook. She is 22 and nice and a college student. I will admit to being a door mat to these people for so long bc i liked the younger generation, ie, the nieces and nephews.

Should i be her fb friend. I know she will show her mom my page, however i am a carefully cultivated facebooker and only put good stuff on, that my boss or whoever can see. Never get too personal. Its mostly pics of my kids and me flying.

[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 7:07 PM, Saturday, December 24th]

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:29 AM on Sunday, December 25th, 2022

Nope no way.
Coincidence that its family time that this request came?
Nah they all standing about and wondering what Gotta is up to. Hey Susie you were her favorite niece. Request to friend so we can get dirt and make fun and feel better about our own shitty existence.

Nah life is too short to be fodder for people that don't deserve your love attention or respect.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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 Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 2:54 AM on Sunday, December 25th, 2022

Came here to see if i had any replies before i deleted the request grin I AM LEARNING!

I asked my daughter and she said NO! They are standing around asking about you!! (Shes smart like you TushNurse!) I said... But... dont you want to keep up w her? Be friendly in the future? Go to her wedding one day?

Dd: No


Me: ok. Delete!

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:50 AM on Monday, December 26th, 2022

Glad to see you are learning and getting stronger.
Your baby is a smart cookie.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 7:42 AM on Tuesday, December 27th, 2022

How are you doing otherwise? I know you have had a lot going on.

BS Fwh

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 Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, December 30th, 2022

Thanks for asking Prickle Patch! Its been a hard few months.

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