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barcher144 (original poster member #54935) posted at 6:06 PM on Wednesday, September 15th, 2021
Hi Everyone... I'm not very active on this site very much anymore and when I participate... it's usually in the divorce/separation forum.
Anyway, I watched a documentary last night in which the story involved a lot of gaslighting and I realized that I am still not fully healed (or ever close) from the gaslighting that was inflicted upon me during my marriage and subsequent divorce.
I seem to recall that there is a really good book on gaslighting that folks recommend... and I was wondering if you could share that recommendation with me.
Thanks!
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, September 16th, 2021
Was it The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist by Debra Miraz?
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
WarriorPrincess ( member #51806) posted at 5:41 AM on Thursday, September 16th, 2021
In Sheeps Clothing by George Simon. It's about manipulation of all sorts, but as I was reading it, so many things fell into place for me.
Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest o' the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls, they wanna have fun....
(Cyndi Lauper)
barcher144 (original poster member #54935) posted at 1:58 PM on Thursday, September 16th, 2021
Was it The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist by Debra Miraz?
Maybe but probably not?
If it is... that's good news for me because I already have that book. Maybe I'll start by re-reading that...
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
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