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million pieces (original poster member #27539) posted at 1:07 AM on Friday, December 20th, 2019
Soo, I've post a few times in the past 2 years about my closest friend. First how our friendship went South because I thought I had done something wrong. Later, when I found out she had been sleeping with another of our friend's husbands, venting. I had come too close to the truth, I wasn't a bad friend. Anyway, our mutual friend's husband is a predator and being awful. In an effort to get him to settle out of court, my friend has subpoenaed all his girlfriends. Well, my ex friend evaded the deposition, but the trial is coming up. Another friend from our book club volunteered to serve her. When she handed the papers over, she stated "Now I don't have to fake being friends with you any longer."
I am soooo happy and sad. What a freaking shitty friend I had. I picked my ex, I picked her. She was sleeping with a friend that she texted daily. Beyond low. I actually think less of her than my ex I think!!! I kinda wish I had been there to see her face, but evidently she just smirked.
Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, December 20th, 2019
Another friend from our book club volunteered to serve her. When she handed the papers over, she stated "Now I don't have to fake being friends with you any longer."
Bravo 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
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