Question/suggestions:
How do others cope when someone has betrayed you...I've moved on, but the have maintained friendships with some of my close family and friends?
When that person shows up at a kid's bday or a baptism, and the betrayer approaches, what do you do?
I have removed that toxicity from my life, but they periodically pop up in my life through other associations.
Do you remove the specific people from your life, too?
When I say, you don't seem to understand, that person is a wolf in sheep's clothing and they deeply wounded me, they say, "oh, but he's such a great guy!!!"
Well, sure to you...you haven't given him an opportunity to betray you, yet.
***also, it appears that he purposely seeks out important people in my life and develops close relationships with them, when he normally, would not have. As the recent example: I have a birth daughter who was in our wedding. She is now an adult. He sought out my birth daughter and adoptive parents and has developed a relationship with them.
Thank you for your insight.
[This message edited by Athena1979 at 9:03 AM, June 28th (Friday)]
Married 11/11/11
2 kids
D-day 12/27/12
D-day 4/12/13
D-day 6/26/13
You know perfectly that you can only change what you accept....never forget that there are two kinds of pain, the one that hurts and the one that makes you change.
