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dejavu2 (original poster member #54508) posted at 10:16 PM on Monday, March 25th, 2019
So- I got a call from doctor’s office today. Turns out that the growth I discovered a few years ago is HPV! I can’t believe it! I separated from that lying, cheating bastard 2.5 years ago, divorced 6 months ago and now this! It must have been him since he was serial cheater and we were together 19 years. I wasn’t with anyone else until long after we separated. Ugh- totally dreading telling my boyfriend. So embarrassed! So pissed! 
Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2019
I'm so sorry. It's terrible and so very unfair. I hope it is benign? I just had my final HPV panel, six years after d day. My doctor said I can finally exhale. Cheaters (and society in general) think it's just about sex. It's about so much more.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 12:01 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2019
I had contracted the cancer causing strain of HPV from my husband via OW3 unbenknownst to me. I knew then he had cheated and he hadn’t yet confessed to the first two one. stands. My dr monitored it for two years and eventually operated in 2001. I was almost stage 4 at that time. I was so angry with him and frustrated because I confronted and he denied. He went to his dr at my request who told him that men can only carry the virus not test positive for it. I had 30% of my cervix removed a week before September 11th. Sending you hugs.
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
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