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Lalagirl posted 8/23/2019 06:26 AM

Oh thank God! ((((Scooby))))

So glad you have those awesome boys of yours!

On another note, it may behoove you to think about getting a RO. You have written proof of some pretty serious threats, sweetie.

Carissima posted 8/23/2019 07:00 AM

Stay safe, you will know how much of his threats are real and how much are posturing to those people he feels are taking toy away from him.

Either way you are now removed from the abuse and I hope you stay there. Don't let him manipulate him you back, you deserve so much more!

Scoobydoo posted 8/23/2019 07:25 AM

Yeah, I got home from work last night, had dinner then while in the shower everything disappeared (bag, phone, laptop from my room) so I locked my door & waited till he got in the shower today.
He took the laptop but didnít take my other belongings into the bathroom, if he had I wouldnít of known what was going on on here!! I called his IC who he has AA & anger management groups with & got him some extra support today while I pack some stuff up.

My boys won't leave my side till I get the train tomorrow, so were all staying somewhere else tonight so he won't know where we are.

I don't want to stay at their houses as they all have children.

I won't say I'm not concerned for my safety & that of my kids because he really has lost all sense of reality.
I am hopeful his IC & the group members can help him out of this mindset that "if he cant have me no-one can"

I think we've all been through enough!!!!

nekonamida posted 8/23/2019 07:33 AM

Good for you, Scooby. Keep us updated to know that you made it safely.

strugglebus posted 8/23/2019 07:34 AM

Scooby! I am so glad you are safe and away with your boys. You are a strong lady and you have been absolutely amazing in these past few months. Stay safe. Get an RO ASAP. You are doing everything right here. Take no chances.

Chaos posted 8/23/2019 07:35 AM

Hang in there Scooby! You have a lot of support here.

I'm glad you alerted his IC.

Hugs and strength to you.

MamaDragon posted 8/23/2019 07:56 AM

hang in there Scooby!

Can you get an RO? He has made some pretty bad statements that indicate he can do some serious harm to someone.

Have an escape plan no matter where you go.

Keep in touch, we worry about you.

Stevesn posted 8/23/2019 08:11 AM

As always all our thoughts are with you. Staying safe is the most important thing.

Tallgirl posted 8/23/2019 08:13 AM

Big hugs scooby

SaddestDad posted 8/23/2019 08:36 AM

He took the laptop

Your laptop, his or a shared laptop?

Lalagirl posted 8/23/2019 08:47 AM

Was he drinking and/or on drugs when this crap went down?

Scoobydoo posted 8/23/2019 08:57 AM

Thank you guys,
Iím changing phones this weekend as itís been pointed out to me about tracking me through my phone,

My apple laptop
All passwords changed bank accounts frozen, solicitor is handling things now!

Phone call from his IC, so Weíre going now, Iíll be in touch when itís safe,

Police are on their way as 2 of my sons are at my daughters getting her stuff, she lives alone so Iím not leaving her behind!

Ffs I canít believe this shit!!!

Iím posting mostly so he can see that plans are in place for our safety

If you read this thread boxer, please stop now, donít do anything you canít come back from Iím begging you!!

Lalagirl posted 8/23/2019 09:07 AM

Hang in there, scoobs...you have so much support - here and IRL.

You're doing everything right.

I would hope with all of this evidence he could be committed for a psych eval and treatment. That could give you a breather as well as you get those ducks in a row.

Glad the solicitor is on this as well.

Hugs honey - stay safe and be well.

Lala

tikismom posted 8/23/2019 09:56 AM

Please stay safe & update when you can. Thinking about you as you navigate this difficult journey.

GoldenR posted 8/23/2019 10:15 AM

Edit....

Nm...I see that you've checked in.

[This message edited by GoldenR at 10:27 AM, August 23rd (Friday)]

Shockedmom posted 8/23/2019 11:16 AM

Stay safe! Go dark until you are sure he is no longer a threat. I am so sorry you and your children are going through this. I hope he gets the help he needs immediately.

Odonna posted 8/23/2019 11:47 AM

Holy Cow!

I know you know to document everything and keep your cool. Keep on keepiní on!

Boxerdog posted 8/23/2019 12:01 PM

BS ONLY

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:19 PM, August 23rd (Friday)]

DoinBettr posted 8/23/2019 12:19 PM

We need an admin in here!

Scooby, stay safe!

66charger posted 8/23/2019 12:20 PM

Run and keep running.

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