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Strange NC

lizgwvet posted 1/13/2019 19:21 PM

Have been in strict NC with EXWH, pretty much since he drove drunk with disabled son in 2017.
Accidentally ran into him when I went to pick up DS this afternoon.
He was in the process of leaving DS group home when I was arriving.
Because of the DUI I do not allow him to drive DS, so they had just returned from a walk.
Truth be told EXWH looked terrible,
Do I feel bad? NO.

EvenKeel posted 1/15/2019 12:45 PM

Truth be told EXWH looked terrible,
Do I feel bad? NO.
And you shouldn't. It was 2-0-1-7 he drove drunk with your DS. He could/should be taking these years to get himself better for his son's sake. The fact that he looks like he77 means he hasn't. Sad but that is on him.

deena04 posted 1/15/2019 20:37 PM

Good! Karma catches up somehow and now you get to catch a glimpse of it.

lizgwvet posted 1/15/2019 23:28 PM

Yes, interesting how things work.
I have been dabbling in OLD, later that same day I had three dates lined up with different, guys.
I think the universe was telling me something.

TrustGone posted 1/16/2019 10:43 AM

I think the universe was telling me something.

Yep. It was telling you the best revenge is a life free from infidelity. I haven't seen XWH#2 since the divorce was final and any attempt at contact was meet with crickets on my part. We no longer have the same friends and the one family member I still have contact with, I don't discuss anything related to him or his life now. I also don't divulge anything about my life that I don't want to get back to him. Since she lives thousands of miles away, it makes it easier. We didn't have children together, so NC is fully in force. Should I happen to someday run across him out of the blue, I would hold to my NC, even though I would want to tear him a new one in front of everyone in hearing distance. I have seen pictures on social media and he also looks like hell. I guess his life with OW and his continued life style has taken it's toll and I'm sure the fantasy has turned to reality by this time. I just smile and thank God for my healing and being free from infidelity and his sorry ass.

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