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EvenKeel (original poster member #24210) posted at 1:20 PM on Wednesday, December 5th, 2018
My ex has been a classic azz from the get-go. I have posted many times on here about whatever his latest stupid antic is.
My kiddos have little contact with him due to his character flaw(s). DD (17) did go to his family's for Thanksgiving and I find out now he is giving her a hard time because she had some medical issues this year "so it is costing him money". We split co-pays.
She was in tears over this. Who the he77 makes their child feel bad because of a medical issue????
I keep thinking only eight more months until she is 18 and this last little piece of control ends.
A light at the end of the tunnel!
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hardtimesinlife ( member #10468) posted at 1:49 AM on Thursday, December 6th, 2018
What a jerkwad he is for even mentioning that to her. He is sending the message to her that she is a burden. He needs his nut-sac bumped with a steel-toed bitch boot!
Hugs to your dd and to you for putting up with him.
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 2:38 AM on Friday, December 7th, 2018
I think a bump is too gentle for this jagoff.
Hate for you that you have to deal with him for even 8 more months. You have so many checkmarks in your column for tolerance and grace. Wish it hadn't had to be so.
We must have a virtual out-of-jail party for you this Summer.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:31 PM on Friday, December 7th, 2018
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 9:44 PM on Sunday, December 9th, 2018
He sounds like a lil bitch. May your kiddo be ok and know that the medical stuff is never, ever anything that a parent should put someone down for.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
EvenKeel (original poster member #24210) posted at 1:37 PM on Monday, December 10th, 2018
Thanks everyone. People under estimate the mojo power of someone else just adding "what an azz". It really helps.
I read over in JFO sometimes and many start with "Everyone thought we had the perfect marriage...". That was me too. When we were dating I thought he would be just a wonderful father. He was never selfish and was always the first one to jump in if someone needed anything. I would have never-ever thought he would have done this to his children even if the M didn't work out.
Amazing how many spouses are not the person we thought we saw early on.
I am so over the heartbreak for me but my heart will always break for my children. They deserve(d) a better father.
I have came a long way and THANK GOODNESS that light at the end of the tunnel is racing towards me.
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May your kiddo be ok
Thank you. She was diagnosed with a thyroid issue, then needed a sleep study. This week she gets her wisdom teeth out. It is sad that I am intentionally holding off sending his his copay statement until after Christmas because he will give her a hard time about her wisdom teeth once he knows. Like you can help that! Ugh.
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