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heartbroken_kk posted 8/24/2018 19:20 PM

bump to keep all the target threads together. May these threads help you all.

BearlyBreathing posted 8/30/2018 02:13 AM

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heartbroken_kk posted 9/13/2018 12:10 PM

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sisoon posted 9/24/2018 10:00 AM

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Somber posted 10/19/2018 22:11 PM

Thank you for your insight! I am a newbie and came across this thread. My WH claims he is remorseful and indicates all that he does to show he wants our family to heal. Truth is, he is rugsweeping and we both have our entire marriage. I never really knew what true remorse was but I always knew I wasnít getting the feeling that things were improving in my heart and soul. Our trust has been shattered multiple times, most recently with an affair I found out about 6 months ago. There has been no full disclosure. He gets frustrated when I bring it up and asks me not to say her name. He avoids talking about it. Instead he thinks making dinner, being home more and planning family outings is effort. He even planned a trip to Disney which I initially thought was insane...I mean we are at rock bottom and you want to plan a trip. My second thought I couldnít do it as a single parent so it will be good for the kids. It is effort for our family but not remorseful! He also tries to rush me to be intimate or close to him and truthfully I canít stand him anymore!!!

By you made it clear what true remorse is and nothing on that list is happening for me. So sad!!

[This message edited by Somber at 10:12 PM, October 19th (Friday)]

minusone posted 12/1/2018 19:19 PM

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heartbroken_kk posted 12/21/2018 15:14 PM

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Teakettle77 posted 12/23/2018 02:34 AM

Wow, so first post. Thank you for that. My WS was meeting all of the rugsweeping critera during our reconciliation, which helped me articulate why I wanted to separate. I actually send him this image. It helped me not only realize how little he was doing I think it helped him too.

Skan posted 1/5/2019 11:33 AM

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Edie posted 2/3/2019 02:28 AM

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sisoon posted 2/16/2019 10:35 AM

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sisoon posted 3/5/2019 09:37 AM

bumo

emergent8 posted 4/5/2019 13:07 PM

bump for totesmagoats

Edie posted 4/10/2019 12:42 PM

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Edie posted 4/23/2019 15:24 PM

Bump 😊

heartbroken_kk posted 4/27/2019 20:24 PM

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hadji posted 5/11/2019 09:54 AM

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BearlyBreathing posted 6/1/2019 14:41 PM

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minusone posted 7/6/2019 08:01 AM

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minusone posted 8/19/2019 11:19 AM

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