Informational Articles Related to Infidelity
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We recognize infidelity affects everyone, and that both men and women can be the betrayers or the betrayed. Where words such as "he" are used in a general sense, they are meant in the universal sense, and are not necessarily male-specific.
Discovery/Confrontation
- Calling All BSs - Nomadlady
- Understanding the 180 - SerJR
- The Simplified 180 - SerJR
- Boundaries and Consequences 101 For All New BS's - Lordhasaplan?
- Tactical Primer - SerJR
- Communicating With a Foggy WS - SerJR
- About Emotional Affairs - Tinkerdandy
- Getting the Truth - Erica
- Shattered Vows: Getting Beyond Betrayal - Dr. Shirley Glass
- Infidelity Through the Tear Stained Eyes of The Betrayed - Erica
Traducción al español - por BrokenGlass - Symptoms of the Wayward Spouse and Recognizing Withdrawal - Deeply Scared
- The No Contact Agreement - Deeply Scared
- Understanding Boundaries - Tough Love - Deeply Scared
- Signs of Cheating - MsLonely and members of SI.com
- The Care and Feeding of an infidelity - werelemming
- Stages of Infidelity - Deeply Scared
- Checklist For Hidden Anger - cd103
- Feels like 9/11 - Looking4Light
- Marital Tsunami - Maritalwhiplash
- Quick Start Guidelines - Poodlepapa
- Plummeting Down the Rabbit Hole - KhristinaC
- Research on Internet Infidelity - Erzulie
- Details of An Affair - Start to End - KhristinaC & H
- The Fog - Ivey
- Suicidal Thoughts - Ivey
- Open Letter To All The New WS's - Vnusmars
- Joseph's Letter - Originally shared with the BAN Group on DearPeggy.com - People can currently find information about Local BAN Support Groups at BeyondAffairs.com
- Dealing With Depression - Markus ur Alias
- You Are Going to be Okay - Jrazz
- Mind Movies and How to Stop Them - heartbroken_kk
Recovery/Reconciliation
- Before You Say Reconcile... Recover - Submitted by yearsofpain25
- What Every WS Needs To Know - Submitted by Hufi-Pufi
- Codependency In The Marriage: A BS’s Common Mistakes - Lordhasaplan?
- The Life Boat
- On Risks - Leo Buscaglia
- Reconciliation the Wrong Way and Reconciliation the Right Way - Erica
- Choosing a Therapist - Erica
- Overcoming My Biggest Trigger - Erica
- Forgiveness - Dr. Shirley Glass/Erica
- Sex With Your Spouse After Infidelity - Erica
- What the WS/BS Must Do to Reconcile - Erica
- Journal Writings the First Year and Healing Timeline - Erica
- Rebuilding Trust - Erica
- Labeled the "Cheat" - Errin
- Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - Erica
- Midlife Crisis - Errin
- The WS’s consequences in Reconciliation - Maureen2002
- In Spite of it All - TheWriteGirl
- Are promises enough? Six Signs of True Repentance - a Christian Perspective - BB
- Acknowledging Set Backs and Triggers - Devoted 4ever
- The Role of the WS and Achieving Healing - Synergy
- Plain of Lethal Flatness - BlindJustice
- A Wayward Spouse's perspective on the loss of innocence in a marriage and hope for a new form of happiness with time - InnocenceLost
- 'Guilt' vs 'Remorse' - FinallyHappy
- Looking Back - Conflicted04
- Compartmentalizing the Affair by the Wayward Spouse - Vnusmars
- Sexual Abuse and Infidelity - Totaldisater
- The Important Truths About Reconciliation - Ladybug_Love
- Fear - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe
- Courage - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe
- Comfort Zone - HotnSpicy_Chikin & StupidMe
- What It Means To Keep NC from a WS’s Perspective - Empty2001, Citigirl and ShamefulMale
Divorce/Separation
- The Divorce Grieving Process An Overview - MsLonely
- Legal and Financial Divorce Considerations - BrokenLife
- No Contact with your Wayward Spouse - Catwoman