PurpleMoxie (original poster member #86385) posted at 9:33 PM on Wednesday, October 8th, 2025
For me, my ring represented the vows he made to me. As we put them one each other the vow was, "take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity". He broke his vows so the ring no longer symbolized love and fidelity. I was never going to wear it again. Since I stayed faithful, his ring is still symbolic of my vows.
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lizziej ( member #55651) posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, October 9th, 2025
Oh good point. As I mentioned doreviosuly we are looking at a new vow ceremony and new rings for me
I like his ring and it was VERY expensive - about 5x mine!! I don't feel like he should get a new ring and tryout summed it up for me. I our the ring on his finger as a symbol of my vows which I did not break!!!! NOW I can feel ok about him wearing it. After most recent d-day I bought him silicone rings which he now wears everywhere even sleeping and the gym
Before he almost never wore his ring except when he was at least semi dressed up. But just a few days ago he started wearing the actual ring allnthentime. Even to the gym!
The pattern of innapropriate behavior makes sense now, he was a porn abuser off/on for 25 yrs. D-day1 2002 or 4 (rugswept dating profile) same in 2010. 2011-14 innappropriate messaging, active profiles seeking nsa sex. R(?) 2014-18. Re-started in 23(?)
