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Reconciling with BS

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 Mrmbc0382 (original poster new member #80252) posted at 7:24 PM on Thursday, March 23rd, 2023

Good morning afternoon or evening depending on where you are when you read this.

Background of my story,

I had one emotional affair that lasted for over a year and one physical/emotional affair that was on and off for over 3 years.

I eventually after numerous questions told the entire truth to my BS. Ive been in therapy for over a year with two different therapists. My BS and I have been working hard on ourselves even though she did absolutely nothing to deserve what I did to her and she should not have to be in therapy. I disrespected her to where now nothing seems to makes sense unless it's stress or lies. We've had discussions about about reconciling and even have a baby on the way which I am extremely happy and blessed to be able to do but know it comes with more stress and a flooding of emotional storms. We already have 4 children together so I'm grateful that my BS has allowed me to remain in their lives.

If you reconciled with your WS what did that person do that worked best for you? Do you still have to battle the memories or movies that were placed into your thoughts by your WS? What did you do for yourself that helped you get to a decision to reconcile? Has trust returned between the two of you? Do you regret reconciling? Does your BS still bring up the affair to you?

Any information would be extremely helpful for this BS. I will share the information with my BS so I can compare with their responses.

Thank you.

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DaddyDom ( member #56960) posted at 12:19 AM on Friday, March 24th, 2023

If you reconciled with your WS...

It looks as if you are seeking responses from BS's on this question, however, this is the WS forum, and the "stop sign" is on the post, which means that BS's can't respond to your questions.

You may want to contact a mod so they can help out, perhaps by removing the stop sign, or by moving this post to the Reconciliation forum.

Me: WS
BS: ISurvivedSoFar
D-Day Nov '16
Status: Reconciling
"I am floored by the amount of grace and love she has shown me in choosing to stay and fight for our marriage. I took everything from her, and yet she chose to forgive me."

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