The1stWife ( member #58832) posted at 3:17 AM on Sunday, June 19th, 2022
My H was planning to D me and leave me for the younger OW.
He had NO plan.
Fortunate I did.
First I had copies of everything - all assets and 401(k) accounts etc.
Then I opened my own bank accounts. He had no idea they existed.
Next I changed all our life insurance policies. I became the account owner, he was the insured. This way as account owner he could not change the beneficiary / our kids would inherit if we D.
I was going to make sure he was involved w/ kids without the OW being around.
Financially he’d be paying child support snd coleus etc until the kids were graduated.
Like I said he thought he was going to live the fun single life. Clueless - he was that clueless.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled.
