ShowMeTheWayForward (original poster new member #79770) posted at 6:58 AM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022
This is what I wrote in my update just above:
'However, yes, I was complicit in and a willing active participant in her emotional cheating on him.'
66charger ( member #69471) posted at 2:56 PM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022
Along the journey, her outward demeanour towards me gradually declined.
Fast-forward again to 2022, and I recently apologised to her about my reaction to an innocuous situation that unexpectedly rushed back old, strong feelings of her being sneaky behind my back.
Moving forward from the beginning of your relationship, the rest of your story does not look good.
You should be "not sure" on a lot of things. Your prize may be a bag of rocks. Prepare yourself.
oldtruck ( member #62540) posted at 9:27 PM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022
they cheat with you they will cheat on you.
you were the OM to ex.
you ignore it but your WW was in a committed relationship and was not free
reap what you sew
Western ( member #46653) posted at 9:58 PM on Sunday, January 16th, 2022
yeah I agree with Oldtruck on this.
You were the OM. I don't blame the OM. I hope he's moved on to better places.
The question is about you and what you are going to do ?
Move on to better pastures dude
BeeBee64 ( member #54718) posted at 10:25 PM on Sunday, January 16th, 2022
Do you have complete access to her email/texts/phone logs?
I suggest you check those areas immediately. Don’t let her know you are interested/suspicious, though. She will delete anything incriminating.
If there is one recurring thing you’ll see in these forums it is that cheaters cheat - over and over.