2 Years Ago:
So after 19 years of marriage without issue, something was off. She was distant, standoffish, and moody so I started getting suspicious. Checked her Google locator and it kept showing her at a particular deli and an apartment complex. I had no idea what this meant so I purchased a tiny GPS/Audio recorder and one day when she was acting weird, I slipped it into her purse. It calls you back and you hear the mic on your phone. Well, I missed the call back so my voicemail recorded 4 minutes of them having sex, rough sex to boot. She says she doesn't hear it, OMG! Then I figured out that the drugstore she went to that day and was only gone 20 minutes so he had to be close. I noticed a guy smoking outside the deli right across the street that originally showed up in Google locator. Turns out he also lives at the apartment complex that showed on Google as well. Hmm, coincidence? Highly unlikely. Just one week ago I discovered he moved and bought a condo and wouldn't you know it, it showed up in her Google maps. She denies everything and says I'm insane, it's a nightmare even when I explain that these are the only GPS entries that she can't explain and all 3 are his? Give me a break. She absolutely will never admit it without a video and it's hurting me so much worse and making me nuts.
UPDATE; 2 years later (today):
Even though she denies all of it still to this day through undeniable proof, I offer good news, the pain does subside eventually and is replaced by what I can only describe as total numbness towards her. We are selling the house and going our separate ways. And a mutually agreed divorce to follow. I have to say however the one thing that still kills me to this day is her lack of honesty or remorse after a 20-year marriage and 2 sons. I feel like she may only apologize when I'm on my death bed one day, but not counting on it. So hang in there, I promise, it will get better. I never however will be able to understand how this woman, my best friend, and partner for 20 years can live with herself. She destroyed our family in the process. I have come to the conclusion that I never really knew her, she's not a good person at all. I live by my conscience so cant comprehend her at all. Dont want to anymore. Stay strong.
[This message edited by JAR171 at 2:48 AM, Thursday, November 25th]